General Chat

Good morning

I love reading your stories, what a wonderful day. Today I reach the age of 64 & my husband is 71 today. My birthday time is 6am & his is 6pm. So we are going out for a Sunday roast at 12.30.

So blessed in may ways, I have had a mystery illness since last November, my muscles and joints seem to disown me. I got to June with every thing locking up on me. Dr was not sure & suggested a physio. Gave up waiting for the surgery one and decided to pay for it. Got a reccomm from my optician, £60 for 40 mins.

So spent the whole time telling her my problems, not a bad way to earn a living. Sent me home to rest & book in next week. So I feeling deflated but better in a way as it was good to talk about it, she said she would look into it and see if she could suggest a solution. How i wondered when she hadn't laid a hand on me.

So I had a badly frozen shoulder on the left and loss of strength, the right side was hurting and beginning to losing strength as well. So bad couldn't even pick up the ironing board. This then moved to the neck which hurt to turn my head. Was in pain nearly all day and so hard to sleep. My legs joined in, I could get to the bus stop but walking around was awful. The worst bit was it moved to my chest, I couldn't sneeze properly & it hurt to breath. Hence the time to go private with the physio.

Went back the 2nd week, we talked she gave me some exercises, still hadn't touched me at all, book in 2 weeks time, said if it hurt too much leave it a day and start again. Did the ones i could & a lot of the chest pain stopped, arms & legs the same. Went back to physio, more chat, said she would write to Dr asking for a blood test. Different exercises, this time tested the strength in arms & legs. Go home back in 2 weeks, by now £180 paid. Called dr no she hadn't written.

Went back in, she had forgotten, said she would do it, This time after a lot of pestering, she actually looked at my shoulders an neck. Said I had a lot of stiffness, tell me something I didn't know. Told me to book 3 weeks, unless it got worse as she didn't want me to spend money when she couldn't do a lot.

I wrote a very long letter to the Dr. Got a reply in 2 days, booked blood test 2 days later. Told it could be 10 days for the results. Had a call from the Dr the next evening, bit of a shock. He said he had put a rush on one of the tests. Thinks it could be Fibromyalgia. Suggested I start a course of Steroids, said he would fax prescription to chemist, but as it was 6pm Friday the prob wouldn't send it till Tuesday. Once I got them to take for 2 weeks & book appointment to see him. He said they can work quite quickly once the get going.

They arrived on Tuesday morning, I took the 4 tiny pills, rang surgery & booked in for 2 weeks. Thought oh well, see what happens. Decided to canx physio for a few weeks. Went to bed.

Woke next day, strange no pain, could move freely again, no side effects. Was I dreaming. Even frozen shoulder felt better & I could sneeze without pain. Two days later improvement all round. Went shopping, oh thought he had a new woman with him & was trying hard to keep up with a speedy wife. It was like a miracle, 4 very tiny pills a day & I felt as good as I had a year ago.

Off to Dr on Tuesday for 1st check up exactly 2 weeks and such a difference.

Feeling so much better & going out for birthday meal, didn't thing I would be going on. Such a lovely day. God bless the Dr for having a guess and little white pills.

Feeling blessed and glad of friends I can share this with.

Have a lovely day everyone and hope everyone is well.
Lots of love. <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Hello all

Another interesting week of postings. Thank you

I have a very old Sunday School song buzzing around in my head now....... I'll share it with you

Magic Penny

Love is something if you give it away
Give it away, give it away.
Love is something if you give it away
You'll end up having more.

It's just like a magic penny
Hold it tight and you won't have any
Lend it, spend it, you'll have many more
They'll keep rolling all over the floor.

Does anyone else remember this old one?

Good morning :-)


Generosity Week

Heavenly Father, you want us to be generous people offering our time, our skills and abilities and our money to your service. Guard us from holding tight when we should be letting go and honouring you as Lord of all we have. In your name we pray. Amen.

Cx :-)

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Generosity Week

From our diocesan website.
Generosity is an important aspect of the Church of England. The church believes in a generous God and encourages its members to share this generosity with others. A generous life is considered a testament to one’s faith and reflects the generous God they believe in. Cultivating a generous culture is also vital for the church to develop a sustainable ministry.

The Church of England emphasizes that generosity is not limited to financial giving but can be expressed in various ways. To foster a generous culture, the church focuses on four key areas:
1. Inspiring people through generous leadership and celebrating generosity within the church community.
2. Discipling members by providing resources, teaching, and learning opportunities to help them understand God’s generosity and live generous lives.
3. Embedding generosity in the life of the church, including its plans, services, and ministries.
4. Activating generosity by offering opportunities for people to grow in generosity and apply what they have learned.

Cx :-)

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Generosity Week

Generosity Week
In Giving
Poet: M. E. Russell

It is in loving, not in being loved,
The heart is blessed;
It is in giving, not in seeking gifts,
We find our quest.
Whatever be thy longing or thy need,
That do thou give.
So shalt thy soul be fed, and thou, indeed,
Shalt truly live.

Cx :-)

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Generosity Week - it isn’t always about money!

After suffering years with a failing liver, Brenda learned that she would need a liver transplant to survive. Though she was 69 years old, she wanted to live many more years and, by all accounts, with a healthy liver, she could. So, the doctors placed her on a liver transplant list hoping a donor would eventually appear.

Brenda waited for a full year before she received the call from her doctor that a match had been found. Thankful that a donor liver had been found, Brenda planned her transplant surgery with great anticipation. However, before the procedure was performed, she received another call to tell her about a 23-year-old woman, Abigail, who had been flown into the hospital that day. Abigail needed a liver transplant as well, and without it, she would die within 24 hours. The donor liver was a match for both ladies.

The choice was up to Brenda, but she did not hesitate. She gave permission for the surgical team to give the liver to Abigail, and as a result, Abigail survived. It was one of the most profound acts of generosity witnessed, and Brenda affected numerous lives in the process.

Thankfully, Brenda was notified four days later that another liver for her had been found. ??


Cx :-)

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Generosity week:

Lord Jesus, teach me to be generous; teach me to serve you as you deserve, to give and not to count the cost, to fight and not to heed the wounds, to toil and not to seek for rest, to labour and not to seek reward, except that of knowing that I do your will. Amen.

Cx :-)

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Red Marbles - Idaho

I was at the corner grocery store buying some potatoes. I noticed a small boy, ragged but clean, hungrily looking at a basket of freshly picked green peas. I couldn’t help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller, the store owner, and the ragged boy next to me.

“Hello Barry, how are you today?”
“H’lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Them peas sure look good!”
“They are good, Barry. How’s your Ma?”
“Fine. Gittin’ stronger alla’ time.”
“Good. Anything I can help you with?”
“No, Sir… jus’ admirin’ them peas.”
“Would you like to take some home?” asked Mr. Miller.
“No, Sir. Got nuthin’ to pay for ’em with.”
“Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?”
“All I got’s my prize marble here.”
“Is that right? Let me see it” said Miller.
“Here ’tis. She’s a dandy.”
“I can see that. Hmm mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?” the store owner asked.
“Not zackley but almost.”
“Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble.” Mr. Miller told the boy.
“‘Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.”

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.
With a smile she said, “There are two other boys like him in our community. All three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.”
“When they come back with their red marbles – and they always do – he decides he doesn’t like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.”

Years went by and I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community. While I was there learned that Mr. Miller had recently died and they were having his visitation that evening.

Upon arrival at the mortuary, we got in line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.
Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two had nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts… all were very professional-looking.

They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband’s casket.
Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one, each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband’s bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.
“Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about. They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim ‘traded’ them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size, they came to pay their debt.”

“We’ve never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,” she confided, “but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho.” With loving gentleness, she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.

The moral:
We will not be remembered by our words but by our kind deeds.

Cx :-)

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The Collect (special prayer) for today:

God of grace, ever creating and restoring,
You breathe life into all things
And embrace us with an everlasting love,
Help us to grow in wonder and awe.
To embody a spirit of gratitude
And to dream generous dreams
That. In gathering what we have
We may graciously offer ourselves
To accomplish what you will.
In Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Cx :-)

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School’s back! We pray for all schools.

Loving Father, Thank you for all who are part of our schools. Please grant them your encouragement, wisdom and peace.

Strengthen teachers with heavy workloads. May they be firm, yet patient, expecting excellence but forgiving mistakes. May they support the children, playing to strengths, helping with struggles and motivating them to do their best.

Comfort and restore those living under shadows of unhappiness, abuse, pain or fear. May they come to know Jesus and His love for them.

Please pour out Your blessings upon all schools,
In Jesus' name.
Amen


Cx :-)

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School’s back!

School secretaries play an important role in the day-to-day operations of a school. They handle providing administrative and clerical support to the school office by answering telephones, greeting visitors, managing pupil records, and handling correspondence.

The school secretary is often the first point of contact for parents and pupils and must be able to effectively communicate with them.
They ensure that the school environment runs as smoothly as possible and allow teachers to focus their energies purely on providing children with an education, rather than worrying about keeping records and other vital yet time-consuming tasks. Their role is vital to the overall performance of the institution.

We thank God for the expertise of these important people in the day-to-day running of our schools.

Cx :-)

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School’s back!

Where would schools be without the caretakers, those good folk who manage and maintain the school premises to ensure that they are clean, secure, safe and well-maintained.

Their main duties are locking and unlocking the buildings, as required, assisting users with setting up facilities such as chairs, and tables and supervising the cleaning. Caretaking can be quite a physical job but these folk take things in their stride and head teachers are more than grateful for the support of a good caretaker.

We thank God for these people who maintain and keep our schools clean and well-tended

Cx :-)

Hello all

Very many thanks Cynthia. This week's prayers about schools are needed as our village schools re-reopen after the long Summer holidays.

Heavenly Father
Pour out Your blessings upon our whole school community so that everyone grows in the knowledge of your love, wisdom and peace.
In Jesus name we pray. Amen.

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School’s back!

In the 1960s, teacher aides were introduced, then this progressed to the 2000s when Teaching Assistants were termed and became commonplace in a variety of education sectors.

Typical duties include: helping pupils with their learning, often with a particular focus on maths, reading and writing supervising group activities setting up equipment for lessons and keeping classrooms safe and tidy helping develop programmes of learning activities and adapting appropriate materials motivating and encouraging pupils monitoring and recording children’s behaviour and progress helping with school events, trips and activities.


Then there are, of course, Special needs classroom assistants/special needs learning support assistants.
These are the teaching assistants who support teachers in helping children with special educational needs and disabilities. They ensure that the pupils are cared for and comfortable within the school community.

We thank God for these dedicated people who help and encourage our young ones through all stages of their lives in school.

Cx :-)

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School’s back!

Most people remember school dinners and the dinner ladies who looked after them. School dinner ladies (also known as School Meal Supervisory Assistants) are those who supervise the activities of children during mealtime.

Dinner ladies assist the children in the dining area, supervise the kitchen work, and keep an eye on the younger children to make sure that they are eating their lunch. They do a fantastic job and what they serve nowadays is very different from when school meals first began in the early 1900’s.

If you were lucky enough to go to school in the early 20th century then you could expect porridge, bread with dripping and a nice glass of milk to wash it all down with.

In the 20’s/30’s, Mutton stew, and desserts like treacle pudding found their way onto the menu.

After the war, tinned meats with mashed potato were popular as was jam roly-poly. Fish and chips would become a Friday staple and Iconic school desserts like spotted dick and rice pudding (with a dollop of jam of course) became the norm.

The dinner ladies then had to get used to serving ‘fast foods’ like pizza, fries and chicken nuggets, along with fizzy drinks with high sugar content. In 1999 a medical survey suggested children in the 1950’s had healthier diets with a higher nutritional value than children in the 1990’s – and that was during rationing!

This all changed and now, every meal has to include at least one portion of vegetables or salad with a wide variety of fruit and vegetables available.

Today’s school dinners look a lot more colourful than they did thirty years ago and they’re much more nutritious as well.

We thank God for these committed ladies who, with patience and expertise, look after the children in our schools.

Cx :-)

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That's so lovely Vera, and thank God for that nice gentleman and his welcome to you. Glad you enjoyed your visit and enjoy the rest of your break. <3


Our children are now back at school, ready to begin the new term. We thank God for all who contribute to their well-being:

School Crossing Patrols.
The job of a lollipop person is to walk to the middle of the road, at a suitable time, holding up their sign; it is a legal requirement for traffic to stop at this command. Once it is safe to do so, the lollipop man/lady will signal that it is alright to cross. Traffic may only move once the sign has been lowered and it is safe to do so.

They were introduced to enable policemen, who had previously run crossing patrols, to perform other duties.

The earliest lollipops were red and black rectangles printed with “Stop, Children Crossing”.

The round lollipop was introduced in the 1960s. In 1974 the uniform changed to the familiar yellow coat.

Britain’s longest-serving lollipop lady was Eunice Robinson who celebrated 40 years of work on a single patrol in 2002. Ms Robinson had planned to take the job only for a few months as a favour to a friend.

Dear God, thank you for these men and women who, through all sorts of weather, guide our children safely across the busy roads. We give thanks for their commitment and care towards these young people. Amen.

Cx :-)

You may remember a couple of weeks ago I mentioned how some churches give out warmth while others seem cold. We are on holiday in Sussex and yesterday we were trying to find a pub we had been told about. While hunting for it we found a church and went in. A gentleman immediately appeared and gave us such a warm welcome and we had a chat. As we walked around it was obvious the church was cared for and the chap was able to answer one or two questions we had. We felt very at ease there. Even my non-believer OH was impressed and thanked the gentleman for his lovely welcome.

We did find the pub but I am sure we got the priorities right i.e. church first, pub second ;-)

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The Collect (special prayer for today)

Almighty God,
whose only Son has opened for us
a new and living way into your presence:
give us pure hearts and steadfast wills
to worship you in spirit and in truth;
through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord,
who is alive and reigns with you,
in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, now and for ever. Amen.

The Gospel story today gives advice for dealing with sin within the church.

Cx :-)

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As Christians, we have a duty to pass on God's love.......


Lord, I see faces wrought with pain -
the suffering, intense.
I know not what they're going through
but know it is immense.

I want to lend a helping hand
to ease their pain and tears.
I ask You, Lord, "what can I do?
Please speak so I may hear.

I pray to be the hands and feet
of Jesus Christ, Your Son.
Enable me, Almighty God,
so I may help someone."

Cx :-)

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Children and their teachers are now back at school and some parents will be wondering where time has gone!

A new chapter of life.

We look at you and wonder,
Where have the years all gone?
What happened to our yesterdays?
It hasn’t been that long….

Since you were learning how to ride a bike
And how to catch a ball.
When did you get so confident?
How did you grow so tall?


We look at you and wonder
at how the years go by,
who showed you how to find your wings?
Who taught you how to fly?

You stand before us on this day
Prepared to step into
As special chapter of your life
written just for you.

We look at you and wonder
And then we realise
The time has come to see you,
Through a different kind of eyes

The one that you’ve grown into
Is a gift beyond the best
So we tell you that we love you
And count ourselves so blessed.


Cx :-)