General Chat

Thought I’d put up something from Helen Steiner Rice.

Good Wishes.

Here are a million good wishes
and more for the things
you can never buy in a store.
A joy-filled heart and a happy smile,
Faith to sustain you in times of trial.
Contentment, inner peace and love,
All priceless gifts from God above!

Thank you Kandj for the lovely welcome.

I am sure your uncle meant it kindly and just wanted you to remember him when you saw the words.

I find all sorts of things pop up every now and then to remind me of times I had forgotten. Occasionally i see a film on "Talking Pictures" and think gosh mum would love that. So I watch it for her. Its coming up to her anniversary, even after all these years it gets to me sometimes. .

Talking of Sparrows - Several of the neighbours have the same hedges in their front gardens including us. I have no idea what they are, my mum was the gardener not us. We just keep it tidy. They are green all year and some mornings there are more sparrows than hedge. When washing up my husband counted 24 in our small hedge, our neighbours large hedge is over 8 foot tall. If I go out the front a whole swarm of little birds fly up to the roof, wait till danger (Me) has gone & swarm back into the hedge. The bushes are full of bird song every morning & evening.

The little sparrows fly in and out all day. We have what's called our cats favourite bush (and the 4 before him) . Again no idea what it is but its not a hedge and loses its leaves each autumn, occasionally has lovely little white flowers in the spring. All year even when its bare we have loads of little birds climbing and flying around it.

The cat is fascinated by it and spends hours sitting in the lounge window just watching the birds. When its warmer he sits under the bush with the little birds up above him, he just sits and watches, which I am very grateful of. We have even had a visit from our Robin who seems to sit and watch my husband at his desk doing family tree updates.

I saw a couple of blackbirds taking advantage of a lack of people and cars in our cul de sac to do their courtin. We of course have a couple of families of seagulls on the roofs opposite. The roof of the house behind us seems to be the best place in the area for several pigeons..

I am always up early and the back garden is very often full of bird song morning and evening when the neighbourhood cats and foxes are away.

I love this very peaceful and thought provoking thread. Hope your keeping yourselves busy in this stressful time.

Cynthia hope things are ok with you and your family.

Take care everyone and keep safe. .

Good morning :-)

How much more housework can you do today then? :-D


Today's Lent Course



Psalm 84.1-4
To the leader: according to The Gittith. Of the Korahites. A Psalm.
1 How lovely is your dwelling place,
O Lord of hosts!
2 My soul longs, indeed it faints
for the courts of the Lord;
my heart and my flesh sing for joy
to the living God.
3 Even the sparrow finds a home,
and the swallow a nest for herself,
where she may lay her young,
at your altars, O Lord of hosts,
my King and my God.
4 Happy are those who live in your house,
ever singing your praise. Selah

The tree sparrow population in the UK has declined by 95% since 1970, in large part because of the loss of habitats due to urban development. As we have increased our building of homes for people, we have reduced habitats for birds.

The psalmist describes sparrows nesting in the Temple, much as bats live in many churches today. Jesus taught that God notices and cares when a sparrow falls to the ground, despite them being small, common and “two a penny” (Luke 12.6-7).

Can you create or restore a habitat for birds in your garden – or in your local churchyard or other community space?


Cx :-) Stay safe all. xx

Hello all

Loved the musical link David. Thank you.

Welcome Tabitha, my Uncle was a well read/learned man and had no sign of dementia. I'm still puzzled by his remarks to me all those years ago.

Vera, not many birds around but I spotted two Sparrow Hawks high in the sky so there must be a nest somewhere which explains the lack of birds now

Cynthia your ongoing Lent Course is appreciated now that the churches are closed and I'm all confused with the weeks of Lent.

Stay safe everyone.

Thank you as always Cynthia. When I went out for my allowed walk today there was a blackbird singing somewhere. I couldn’t see him but stood and listened for a while. We feed the birds and now that we are more or less confined to the house I am getting so much pleasure from watching them. We also have a bee box and a tiny little pond that the frogs visit. We are very blessed in the natural world but I think we are only just beginning to realise how we have abused our beautiful planet.

Good morning... :-)

Did I really forget to come on here yesterday? So sorry - it wasn't an April Fool thing honestly :-D

Thanks for those words Tabitha and I am glad you enjoy this thread <3


For today:
Genesis 8.6-12
6 At the end of forty days Noah opened the window of the ark that he had made 7 and sent out the raven; and it went to and fro until the waters were dried up from the earth. 8 Then he sent out the dove from him, to see if the waters had subsided from the face of the ground; 9 but the dove found no place to set its foot, and it returned to him to the ark, for the waters were still on the face of the whole earth. So he put out his hand and took it and brought it into the ark with him. 10 He waited another seven days, and again he sent out the dove from the ark; 11 and the dove came back to him in the evening, and there in its beak was a freshly plucked olive leaf; so Noah knew that the waters had subsided from the earth. 12 Then he waited another seven days, and sent out the dove, and it did not return to him any more.

Doves are among the birds most often mentioned in the Bible. Noah sends one out to see if the land has recovered after the flood. The dove returns when it finds “no place to set its foot” and later does not come back, having found a new home.

In our own time, many bird species are in decline as the habitats that provide their homes are lost as a result of climate change, deforestation and intensive farming.

Intensive farming is associated with hedgerow loss and reduced biodiversity. When you buy fruit and vegetables, look out for produce from less intensive organic or LEAF-certified producers.

Look at the birds of the air
Watch – and listen – out for birds today. Bigger cities and changes to farming mean there are many fewer than a few decades ago.


Cx :-)

A song for you Rinacero

https://youtu.be/D5DhJS5hGWc

Yes I too have heard or seen the 4 lines of verse many times in a garden & was looking for a poem of encouragement for someone & found this -

No idea why some adults make things up for children - I am sure it was well meant at the time, perhaps he hoped you would remember him if you saw the words again. You never know he may have had slight dementia then, and not wanting to admit he didn't know said he had written them, perhaps he really thought he had.

Hope everyone is safe and well in their homes and keeping busy with their family tree & using Skype or whatever the system is that keeps in touch with family.

We are all so lucky now to be able to use a lot of different kinds of media to see and speak with loved ones.

Take care everyone - i love reading your postings on this beautiful thread.

Stay safe ;-) <3 ;-)

Thank you for your posting Tabitha. I seem to have known the four lines starting “The kiss of the sun....” for as long as I can remember but never knew where they came from.

Green spaces, flowers, bird song etc are so important for our mental health and our sense of calm that my thoughts are also with those who are cooped up in flats and houses with no access to the outside.

Stay safe and well everyone <3

Hello all

An interesting postingTabitha, thank you.

My paternal Uncle had a beautiful flower garden, my Dad grew mostly vegetables to feed our family.
One day when I was walking around Uncle George's garden I spotted a round concrete slab with these words written on it..............

The kiss of the sun for pardon,
The song of the birds for mirth,
You are nearer God's heart in a garden
Than anywhere else on earth.

When I commented on how beautiful the words were, my Uncle said that he had written them himself. I was very impressed (only about 10-11 years old) at the time, but not so impressed very many years later when I came across the poem written by Dorothy Frances Gurney. Sadly my Uncle had died and so I was unable to question him and I still wonder why he felt that he had to lie to me and claim that he had written the words himself??

Saw this while working this afternoon - thought it would be nice to share as we were talking about the beginning and such beautiful weather at the moment

THE Lord God planted a garden
In the first white days of the world,
And He set there an angel warden
In a garment of light enfurled.
So near to the peace of Heaven,
That the hawk might nest with the wren,
For there in the cool of the even
God walked with the first of men.
And I dream that these garden-closes
With their shade and their sun-flecked sod
And their lilies and bowers of roses,
Were laid by the hand of God.
The kiss of the sun for pardon,
The song of the birds for mirth,--
One is nearer God's heart in a garden
Than anywhere else on earth.
For He broke it for us in a garden
Under the olive-trees
Where the angel of strength was the warden
And the soul of the world found ease.

Dorothy Frances Gurney

Good morning :-)


Praying for all who are working on the frontline during this difficult time and for their families.

Praying for those who are ill with this virus and for those who have died, and for their families.

Praying for all researchers and scientists as they seek to find a cure, and for their families.

So many prayers needed, so many prayers being offered. <3



Today's Lent Course

Psalm 104.24-28
24 O Lord, how manifold are your works!
In wisdom you have made them all;
the earth is full of your creatures.
25 Yonder is the sea, great and wide,
creeping things innumerable are there,
living things both small and great.
26 There go the ships,
and Leviathan that you formed to sport in it.
27 These all look to you
to give them their food in due season;
28 when you give to them, they gather it up;
when you open your hand, they are filled with good things.

The sea is filled with innumerable creatures, from microscopic to the largest creatures on earth. But this diversity is threatened not only by global warming but also by plastic pollution.

Currently over three billion of us worldwide currently have no safe way of managing our plastic waste. Plastic waste not only causes pollution that damages human health, it leads to vast floating islands of plastic in the seas and microplastics threatening even the tiniest marine creatures.

There is an urgent need for us to break our plastic addiction. What more could you do to reduce your own use of plastic at home and on the move? Think of ways you and your family could use less.


Love and prayers

Cx :-)

Hello all

Thank you for the Lent postings Cynthia.

Hard to think Passion Sunday has passed and Palm Sunday is so near. My church calendar is all to pot.

My thoughts and prayers are with families who are facing death of a loved one through the Corona virus.

And you Cynthia stay safe x

Good morning :-)

I watched the Archbishop of York and then Bangor cathedral yesterday morning too kandj. I enjoyed them both. Like you, I so miss going to church :-(


Chins up and off we go!

Lent Course

Genesis 1.20-23
20 And God said, ‘Let the waters bring forth swarms of living creatures, and let birds fly above the earth across the dome of the sky.’ 21 So God created the great sea monsters and every living creature that moves, of every kind, with which the waters swarm, and every winged bird of every kind. And God saw that it was good. 22 God blessed them, saying, ‘Be fruitful and multiply and fill the waters in the seas, and let birds multiply on the earth.’ 23 And there was evening and there was morning, the fifth day.


On the fifth day of the Genesis 1 account, God does not merely cause the sea and the sky to team with vast quantities of creatures. He also creates an extravagant diversity: over 10,000 species of birds and over 30,000 species of fish have been so far identified.

God blesses the living creatures (literally, “living souls”) he has created and commands them to multiply and fill the waters and fill the earth. And God sees that they are good.

Allow yourself to wonder at the abundant, varied and often beautiful creatures who share our world. Discover more about birds or sea creatures by watching a documentary or researching online.

Explore the wonders of the deep!

Watch a nature documentary or research online to discover more about the life of our oceans – and thank God for the wonders of his creation.


Take care my friends. Cx :-)

Hello all

Watched the morning service from Bangor church and then Songs of Praise with Aled Jones and the Archbishop of York Stephen Cottrell.... enjoyed both.

Missing being in church. I no longer have a structure to my week.

Good morning :-)


Passion Sunday is the fifth Sunday of Lent, marking the beginning of the two-week period called Passiontide. We are now building up towards Palm Sunday and Holy Week.


The Collect (special prayer) for today:

Heavenly Father,
who anointed your Son Jesus Christ
with the Holy Spirit and with power
to bring to the world the blessings of your kingdom:
anoint your Church with the same Holy Spirit,
that we who share in his suffering and his victory
may bear witness to the gospel of salvation;
through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord,
who is alive and reigns with you,
in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, now and for ever.
Amen.

The Gospel reading for today tells the story of Lazarus. In this story, we hear the phrase ‘Jesus wept’, words so often used as swear words ?


Hope you are all up to date with your clocks :-D

Cx :-)

Hello all

No gardening for me today with cold windy weather.

A reminder to put the clocks forward tonight for the beginning of British Summer Time and longer lighter nights which has got to cheer us all up I think.

Loving the quote from Martin Luther.

Keep well and stay safe everyone.

Good morning :-)

Good old donkey stone stories - love them....thank you <3

I remember hearing about Slapped Face thingey - so glad he is okay with it Sylvia. xx

Today's Lent Course - kandj is ahead of us....hahahaha

Acts 2.14-21

14 But Peter, standing with the eleven, raised his voice and addressed them: ‘Men of Judea and all who live in Jerusalem, let this be known to you, and listen to what I say. 15 Indeed, these are not drunk, as you suppose, for it is only nine o’clock in the morning. 16 No, this is what was spoken through the prophet Joel:
17 “In the last days it will be, God declares,
that I will pour out my Spirit upon all flesh,
and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy,
and your young men shall see visions,
and your old men shall dream dreams.
18 Even upon my slaves, both men and women,
in those days I will pour out my Spirit;
and they shall prophesy.
19 And I will show portents in the heaven above
and signs on the earth below,
blood, and fire, and smoky mist.
20 The sun shall be turned to darkness
and the moon to blood,
before the coming of the Lord’s great and glorious day.
21 Then everyone who calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved.”


The Bible contains a number of “apocalyptic” predictions – often associated with signs in the sun and moon. For too many people, a belief that this world is going to be destroyed has led them to conclude we need not bother about saving it.

The Bible certainly anticipates a time when God will transform this present reality, bringing in a new heaven and a new earth. But the hope of this glorious future – of Resurrection – is one that inspires us to heal our world and love our neighbours now.

Reflect on these words, attributed to Martin Luther: “If I believed the world were to end tomorrow, I would still plant a tree today.”

Maybe you could plant something this weekend – the seed of an apple or a tomato – something you already have.

Notice how they respond to night and day and the coming of spring in the weeks ahead.

With my love, Cx :-)

I remember donkey stoning the front step!

House proud women did it every day, others did it once a week and hoped it didn't look too bad by the next stoning day!

I had to do some of it too, especially after Mum died, until Dad decided we really didn't need to do the very large front step. I think he made that decision after I went back to University after the Easter break during which we buried Mum ....... he had to do it himself then, although the lady next door offered to help with any housework that he needed doing :-0

Heard earlier this week that grandson had Fifth Disease (aka Slap Cheek), incubation time could mean infection at school just before they left for Florida or while he was there.

I'd never heard of it so had to do my research ;-) .

It's called that because it is the 5th viral disease of children, and is apparently very common. Luckily it is usually very mild ..... apparently grandson was showing all the symptoms, no need to visit the doctor, so daughter was just told how to treat him. Otherwise, grandson was very happy and cheerful!

Keep safe everyone xxx