General Chat

I got some marmalade made ,had a tidy in one of the kitchen cupboards as I was fed up with having to pull things out to get to what I want I have a mixer in there my fryer and a big bowl I mix the Christmas cakes in and I store the preserving pan in the big bowl plus a lot of other bits dry goods and the cereals ,I moved things round a bit and it seems better now that is until I want something from the back again ,why does everything get to the back I suppose it's because I can't kneel jdown to get to things like i could ,all these cupboards and they are all full of bits and pieces I don't use very often.

Just lit the fire and will settle down watch the news and do some crochet now .

Still only 8 degrees here so not very warm at all. No wind or rain though so I think I can manage with a short jacket when I go out.

Good luck with your busy day Gwyn I hope you get done all you planned.

Its still saying 12 degrees here but it feels really much colder than that. There has been rain in the air when I went out to fish the leaves off the pond and feed the fish.

O its now changed to mostlly cloudy but when I started this post it said partly sunny so if it was I missed it. :-(

Annx They seem to have been very thorough in doing investigaions for your OH and I'm pleased for you both that the results were so reassuring.

Vera, Your OH is so kind to take your friends to medical appointments and not for the first time, so I hope they have a stress-free journey today. I can however well imagine your feelings and frustration when he decides to help you. We think we have covered any necessary information and instruction and STILL they go their own way :-|
I'm sure you garden will be lovely, - just not quite how you planned ;-)

Mandy, good to read that you are feeling a bit better today.Taking paracetamol to take the edge of the symptoms was a good idea. I hope you both feel better as the day goes on.

AnnG.. I hope you enjoy your lunch with friends just as I did when I met up with 'The Girls' yesterday locally. Wishful thinking rather regarding the name, but that's how we have always refered to our meets in recent years. We have been friends since our children were at primary school together back in the 80s.

Mel, Your brother-in-law is a huge help to you, so I hope you both manage to get some more jobs sorted, when he comes.

A real chill in the air today and only 9 degrees and very dull, but at least it's dry.
It's going to be a very busy day, so I'd best get on.

In my last post I put 2 degrees it should have been 12 degrees as there is definately no frost!!!! Silly me. Pc is saying partly sunny but I don't know when that will arrive as theres no sign so far.

Off round to do the chickens now and see if I have any eggs today as I had zilch yesterday.

Glad you feel better today Mandy. These things they keep putting in us do upset the system some times don't they?

Vera you popped in just before me this morning so I have only just seen your post. I hope your oh has a good journey there and back and that he can go in the warm as its really cheerless just sitting in the car.

Morning all,

Dull and grey here ,oh to see some sun ,I think Monday might be a brighter day one good thing is its dry .

Vera it sounds as if its going to be a long day for your OH he'll be tired when he gets home ,will he wait in the car or go into the hospital in the warm .

I feel a bit better today ,I did feel so tired and my muscles ached in the evening but I have had paracetamol like they said and its taken the edge off .

Anng enjoy your lunch out with your friends.

Morning Ann and all,

Cloudy but 2 degrees here and still as dreary as a day in the rain. I am so fed up with it now but I suppose our winters are going to be like this now.

BIL is supposed to be coming today but goodness knows what time he will turn up so I am up and dressed.

Have a good catchup with your friend today and a lovely lunch out Anng.

Good morning all

Looks as though it’s going to be another miserable, grey day here. It’s 7 degrees at the moment and not supposed to get above 10 all day. OH is now on his way to Papworth Hospital with our friend and his wife. I’m not sure what I am going to do today apart from sorting the bulbs out. I might make some soup as I’ve used the last from the freezer.

Enjoy your lunch out AnnG. It’s always good to meet up with old friends.

Good morning all Only 7 degrees here at 0700 so not very warm at all. still too dark to see what the weather will be although it looks cloudy. (no change there then)!

Lunch at a carvery today with my friend I used to work with 1976-1981, they spend a lot of time at their house in Italy since they retired (she is about 10 years younger than me). But they try and take me out near Christmas every year. They live in the Forest of Dean. Picking me up at 1230.

I'm so pleased it was a good result for oh Annx. He's very brave to go without the sedative and have a cannula put in. Hope you get a good nights sleep tonight now both your minds are at rest. <3

Good news Ann, relief for both of you. Gosh your Oh is strong willed to go through it without a sedative.

Vera yes it will be easier after they flower.

Oh, that is good news Annx and must be a load off your mind. I am sure you will both sleep well tonight.

AnnG, I had told OH not to plant everything in rows like soldiers but to aim for a slightly more natural look. He had actually listened to that and mixed all the bulbs, larger and smaller, in a bucket, thrown them on the garden and planted each one where it fell. I will let them come up this spring so I can see where the tall ones are and lift them when they die down.

I mustn’t get too cross with him as I don’t want him to go to bed stressed. Tomorrow he’s doing a friend a good turn by driving him to Papworth hospital and back. It’s a long drive, at least 75 minutes each way, more if the traffic is heavy, and he will have to hang about while friend has lots of tests and then sees the doctor. Normally his son takes him but he is away at the moment so OH offered.

Oh Ann you must both be so relieved no wonder you haven't slept very well it must have been such a worry for you both , how well OH did not having any sedation and it was a long wait for you but the best news when it was all over <3

Evening All,

I started this earlier but got interrupted!

Another drab dreary day here. OH has been doing lots of notes today as he has two meetings now and I seem to have spent most of the day trying to find out what's happening with our front door sill replacement. I rang again as they hadn't got back to me since Monday, but after holding on ages and eventually speaking to someone, they tried to contact the service people too and couldn't, so they've emailed them now to ask them to let me know, but nothing as yet.

Yesterday was quite hectic after both of us were awake most of the night with OH spending a lot of time into the early hours in the bathroom after drinking the meds ready for his hospital trip. We were up at 6.30am for him to shower for an early start. As you can imagine, we were both quite worried after him being put on the cancer pathway and his mother having had the same symptoms leading to terminal bowel cancer. Especially too as the physician associate had wasted time and delayed things by putting 'no further action' on his notes after his initial blood tests. The endoscopy unit was a newish, separate building to the rest with free parking. I have never been in such a spotless hospital. Absolutely no dust or dirt anywhere, including the toilets, welcoming, smiling staff, tidy desk and noticeboards. I had to stay in the waiting room and after a while they told me it would be another 2 hours at least if I wanted to go and come back or I could wait. I waited apart from going to the car for a while and for a change of seat. It was too far for me to walk to anything and I didn't want to lose the handy parking spot we had. I was the only one in the waiting room most of the time, so the receptionist offered me a drink and even hunted down some decaf tea for me. There is no cafe and you aren't allowed to eat or drink there because the patients have been fasting and only drinking water, so it wouldn't be fair and I expect they don't want them forgetting and being tempted to eat or drink!
Another wife came back then and we had quite a chat while we waited. Then OH appeared and was walking which surprised me as you usually have to rest a while to come round from the sedative. I went with him for the results to be talked through and he told me there was no cancer, which was good to hear and they've removed him from the cancer pathway.. They'd found a bit of inflammation that may need antibiotics and some diverticular pockets which a lot of us get as we get older and did a few biopsies as well to confirm it. I was still puzzled he was so alert, but they patted him on the back and told me he was a star and had had it done without having any sedative, despite them putting a cannula in in case he couldn't manage without!! I was shocked, but he did have an endoscopy years ago before he retired with no sedative so he could go to a meeting afterwards. He also had a root canal filling at the dentist without an injection once as well. He got the report with the findings and other information straightaway and they explained it all to us, but nothing was rushed and they all seemed to enjoy their work. What an example of professionalism and good management.

We both slept well last night and went for a brekkie this morning at a garden centre that has the plasic baskets I wanted to look at.......no joy again! OH also had an email from them that said 10% off everything there all day today. We were the first to arrive and he ordered our food, but noticed they hadn't taken 10% off. They argued at first, till I pointed out the leaflets on their walls said it was the VIP food that was only from 3.00pm to 5.00pm. The server agreed and went to fetch the manager, meanwhile a queue was building up! The manager was quite unpleasant, but OH found the email on his phone that said the same as we were saying, so he flounced off to 'sort it out.' Our brekkie had arrived then, so the server said for us to go and have it and she would refund till they sorted out a barcode they apparently needed to use to give the discount. One of the chaps behind in the queue came over to OH once he'd ordered his food to thank him for persisting as he said it had saved him £5 on his bill.

I'll catch up with the posts tomorrow, as I need to send some emails now. Night night and sleep tight.

I had a PM from Annx yesterday, so I expect she has been busy since.

Ann posted on the 5th but not yet today and not on the 6th so yes, hope all is well there.


Oh dear Vera, a good job he is out tomorrow then. Do you think there is a chance that he might remember the area the tall bulbs are in or will they have been mixed up. I assume the bulbs were significantly different in size?

He probably wasn't use to the road then ,not something you want to meet on a country lane a double decker going at speed .

We have both felt really tired and achey this afternoon so I don't know if it's to do with the jab ,talked that up Vera about feeling OK.

Just let Max out and it's quite windy out there now ,hope there's a bit of a blow tomorrow for my washing .

Hello ladies

I'm spitting feathers at the moment and could happily strangle my OH so I've come on here to calm down a bit. I do love him really and know I am lucky to still have him but........

You may remember he got rid of a load of bugle and also moss and cleared a patch in one of the beds where he was going to put all the small tulips I usually put into several low pots. I was surprised when he said he needed quite a few more but just assumed the patch he cleared was bigger than I realised. HE HAD PLANTED THE WRONG BULBS :-P I had not only told him the names of the ones to plant i.e. Heart's Delight and Waterlily, but I had got those packs out of the big box of bulbs ready for him. I just went into the garage and sitting on the bench is a big bag of Heart's Delight and an empty bag marked orange tulips which I definitely didn't get out for him. That bit of the garden is now going to look pretty silly in the spring with the odd tall orange tulip popping up here and there among the little ones. I now still have to plant all the Heart's Delight in small pots but don't have the lovely orange ones to go in a big pot as usual. I am afraid he got the rough edge of my tongue and I did swear at him. He looked a bit shocked at that as I am not normally a swearer but I was so angry. Tomorrow he will be out from about 7 am till 1 or 2 pm and I had planned to get one of our infrequent buses into town and do some jobs in town that I can get through more quickly on my own but it looks as though I will be sorting out pots and bulbs instead, Rant over. I'm feeling calmer now.

My mood wasn't helped by the fact that I had a dreadful night. We went to our normal coffee meet but we were a bit thin on the ground today. This afternoon I had a delivery from Tesco. It was a big order as I've been using stuff up and so the cupboards were a bit bare and I also included some Christmas stuff but there was nothing missing and just one acceptable sub.

Your new planter sounds a decent size AnnG and should look good when it's all planted up. It's good you enjoyed your lunch but the bus ride home sounds a bit hairy

I'm glad you haven't had much trouble with painful arms Mandy.

I hope Annx is OK. I don't think she has posted for a couple of days but she might well be busy.

Well, I'd better go and make my peace with OH.

It was coming home I was inside and we were on the first seat that is elevated downstairs. the road is very bad as well as it is a diverted rout due to a closed road bridge. So the narrow lanes don't normally carry double decked buses. Going in first think I had an older driver and I was upstairs, it is still very bumpy but he was much more sedate.

Oh goodness Anng was that going or coming back ,that wasn't good if it was after a lunch being swung about like that ,I can remember going to Norwich once on the bus with a driver like that I was on the inside seat and had to really hold on when he went round a roundabout had to brace myself with my feet lol